This has been a very informative week for me. Aside from learning about the culture of Brazil, I´ve met wonderful people and learned a lot from them as well.
As a writer, I think I´m trained to be observant and to really listen to what people say underneath the surface. I hope my friends can say the same. However, I also think that the American culture is one that veers toward surface listening - i.e. not really taking the time to listen.
I become even more conscious of this when I travel and there is a language barrier. Even though I don´t speak Portugese, I seem to be getting by very well and I really chalk that up to listening. I hope that more people will take the time to listen. You never know what you´ll learn.
Sep 19, 2008
#91: 10 Ways to Make Your World A Better Place (Friday, September 19)
This entry comes to you from Ipanema beach in Rio, and is a combination of the Salvation Army's newsletter and my own input:
1. Associate with people who are different. When I first met the woman who I'm now traveling Brazil with, I had no idea that we'd become friends. It didn't seem like we had much in common. And now that I know her, we don't. But we get along like a house on fire.
2. Live simply so that others can simply live. You don't need much to survive, just friends, family and #7 and #9 on this list.
3. Forgive. Holding on to things causes bad skin. LOL. Just kidding, but it really doesn't benefit you.
4. Travel nice. Be friendly to the people you meet in your travels, and always respect the culture of the place you're traveling to.
5. Be aware of your bad moods. And just try to stay clear of others when you're in them.
6. For every negative thing you say or think, balance it out with 6 positive messages.
7. Love.
8. Live.
9. Laugh.
10. Practice reciprocity. Do unto others...
1. Associate with people who are different. When I first met the woman who I'm now traveling Brazil with, I had no idea that we'd become friends. It didn't seem like we had much in common. And now that I know her, we don't. But we get along like a house on fire.
2. Live simply so that others can simply live. You don't need much to survive, just friends, family and #7 and #9 on this list.
3. Forgive. Holding on to things causes bad skin. LOL. Just kidding, but it really doesn't benefit you.
4. Travel nice. Be friendly to the people you meet in your travels, and always respect the culture of the place you're traveling to.
5. Be aware of your bad moods. And just try to stay clear of others when you're in them.
6. For every negative thing you say or think, balance it out with 6 positive messages.
7. Love.
8. Live.
9. Laugh.
10. Practice reciprocity. Do unto others...
Sep 12, 2008
#90: The Power of Words (Friday, September 12)
Earlier this week, I read a quote that resonated with me. I thought I'd share it for this week's Good Friday idea:
I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation I may be; for I have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances. -Martha Washington
The bottom line: We cannot determine the situations in which we find ourselves, but we can determine how we react in those situations. :)
I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation I may be; for I have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances. -Martha Washington
The bottom line: We cannot determine the situations in which we find ourselves, but we can determine how we react in those situations. :)
Sep 5, 2008
#89: Do What You Love (Friday, September 5)
Sometimes fate puts people in your life and you don't even know why. When I signed up for the Habitat for Humanity build, I did so with 3 other friends. Unfortunately, two couldn't make it at the last minute, so we had to join a team of two other people, one of whom was a guy named Brandon. He was outgoing and funny and had me in good spirits through the entire build. I knew that we'd become very good friends, but as luck would have it, I didn't get the chance to really know him (or see him again, for that matter), because he left NY two weeks after the build.
He left his family, friends, a great job and everything he knew to go travel the world. And he didn't even really know why he was doing it, just that he had to. Sounds crazy, right? Yet, I was very inspired by the few brief conversations we had about his leaving. He was one of the catalysts in me booking (my now foiled) trip to Thailand, and had a little bit to do with Brazil as well.
Since he's gone, he's had some amazing experiences, and has been kind enough to document them. I can't wait to see what he does next. Brandon is doing what he loves, and has inspired me to do the same...I'm already looking for my next destination after Brazil with plans for Japan in summer '09. :)
Are you doing what you love?
He left his family, friends, a great job and everything he knew to go travel the world. And he didn't even really know why he was doing it, just that he had to. Sounds crazy, right? Yet, I was very inspired by the few brief conversations we had about his leaving. He was one of the catalysts in me booking (my now foiled) trip to Thailand, and had a little bit to do with Brazil as well.
Since he's gone, he's had some amazing experiences, and has been kind enough to document them. I can't wait to see what he does next. Brandon is doing what he loves, and has inspired me to do the same...I'm already looking for my next destination after Brazil with plans for Japan in summer '09. :)
Are you doing what you love?
Aug 29, 2008
#88: Self-Denial Isn't Good For The Soul (Friday, August 29)
Ever since I was 25, my dream was to go to Brazil for carnival before my 30th birthday. I don't know why it was Brazil -- I didn't have any Brazilian friends -- but I read an article about Salvador, and I was hooked. Since then, every year friends would ask what I wanted for my birthday. "Just be there with me in 2008 for carnival," I would respond.
I started sending out reminders in 2006. One of my dearest friends couldn't make it; she was moving to Trinidad. Others had family and work commitments, but a few confirmed. Then in April 2007, I finally started making plans: this was what I'd been waiting for. Alas it wasn't to be: the friends who had confirmed could no longer go. I was devastated. I tried to console myself with the thought that it wouldn't be the same without people I loved around me. It worked for about a month, then the longing came back.
I ignored it; I'd heard that Brazil wasn't safe for a single woman, so going alone wasn't an option. I made plans for trips to other countries and convinced myself that it wasn't meant to be. Then last week I was at work, and a thought popped into my head: "What if you don't make it to your 30th birthday?" Morbid, I know, but it made me realize that although I didn't make it there for carnival before my 30th birthday, I could still make it there. I got online and booked my flight within 10 minutes, with no place to stay, no itinerary, and without knowing a word of Portuguese.
So in a little over two weeks I leave for Brazil, and because I took the first step, I also have a friend coming along. I'm excited to be sharing one of my big dreams with her. All these years, I was planning for an event that I could have done back when I was 25. But thankfully I'm doing it now.
What have you been denying yourself that could potentially increase your enjoyment of life?
I started sending out reminders in 2006. One of my dearest friends couldn't make it; she was moving to Trinidad. Others had family and work commitments, but a few confirmed. Then in April 2007, I finally started making plans: this was what I'd been waiting for. Alas it wasn't to be: the friends who had confirmed could no longer go. I was devastated. I tried to console myself with the thought that it wouldn't be the same without people I loved around me. It worked for about a month, then the longing came back.
I ignored it; I'd heard that Brazil wasn't safe for a single woman, so going alone wasn't an option. I made plans for trips to other countries and convinced myself that it wasn't meant to be. Then last week I was at work, and a thought popped into my head: "What if you don't make it to your 30th birthday?" Morbid, I know, but it made me realize that although I didn't make it there for carnival before my 30th birthday, I could still make it there. I got online and booked my flight within 10 minutes, with no place to stay, no itinerary, and without knowing a word of Portuguese.
So in a little over two weeks I leave for Brazil, and because I took the first step, I also have a friend coming along. I'm excited to be sharing one of my big dreams with her. All these years, I was planning for an event that I could have done back when I was 25. But thankfully I'm doing it now.
What have you been denying yourself that could potentially increase your enjoyment of life?
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