Jan 24, 2014

#369: "I've Been Here Before" (Friday, January 24)

One cannot be prepared for something while secretly believing it will not happen." -Nelson Mandela

Take a look at your goals for this year. How many of them are goals that you've attempted in the past, or have had on your list for a long time?

Have you ever noticed that the closer you get to achieving a goal, the more obstacles seem to appear to prevent you from getting there? Sometimes the obstacles are situations outside of your control - you lose your job, suffer an unexpected illness, have to relocate, etc.

But more often than not, you are the person standing in your own way. Doubt, fear, self-deprecation - these feelings can sabotage your goals.

But you can get ahead of it.

This week's action: 
  • List all your goals (use one sheet of paper per goal). 
  • Then for each goal, write down everything you've done - the excuses you've given, getting distracted by other things, conflicting activities - to sabotage that goal.
  • Keep that list handy and refer to it every time you think of deferring or canceling your goal.
Knowing is half the battle.


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