Feb 2, 2018

Good Friday #579: Consider the Source (Friday, February 2)

On the morning of November 10, 2015, a Facebook page titled, "Meryl L. Streep" made this post:

The post went viral and was shared thousands of times, but it was fake. The picture, which looks like a personal snapshot was actually taken by a professional photographer. The words were not written by Meryl Streep (although she did say something similar in an interview). In fact, the page isn't even hers, but rather a fan page.

But we believed it. Because, well, it was believable. The source appeared credible, the picture was a "natural" down-to-earth shot. It seemed plausible.

But in real life, we operate differently. We are more apt to receive quotes like the one above and self-help books than we are to receive the same advice from friends. When you are receiving advice from a friend, ask yourself:

  • What is my history with this person? Is there jealousy, past misunderstandings, deceit...or has this person consistently had my best interest at heart?
  • What is their intent?
  • If this message was coming from my favorite person in the world, would I receive it differently?
This story is a great reminder to consider the source. 

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