#272: A Simple Acknowledgement (Friday, March 16)

Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours. - 101 Simple Truths We Often Forget (#94)

I was raised in a culture where you acknowledge other people, even strangers. Not doing so would be considered impolite, but would also be a reflection of how you were raised. Coming to the US was definitely a transition. I discovered that my friendly overtures were often ignored or were not returned with the same zeal. But acknowledging others around you is just a simple way to stay connected to other people and it costs nothing. Consider these tips:

• When entering a small, enclosed space (a meeting, or a doctor's waiting room, or the pantry at work) always greet those that are already there.
• If you are attending a small meeting and there are people you do not know, introduce yourself. Do not wait for the meeting to begin before acknowledging those in the room with you.
• If you catch a stranger's eye, it is considered polite to smile or give some other gesture of acknowledgment.
• Your greeting should be appropriate for the relationship (handshake, kiss on the cheek, hug, etc.)
• Your handshake should be firm and strong. Nothing is more offputting than a weak handshake.
• Children are people too and should also be included in a greeting.
• Know the cultural implications of greetings if you plan to travel, or if you will be in a situation outside of the standard customs. For example, in some cultures, it is considered offensive not to greet in the order of importance/seniority. In other cultures, you have to wait to be introduced.