#280: Perception Is Reality (Friday, May 11)

First impressions are lasting ones and nothing contributes more to a first impression than how you look. As unfair as it seems, people form opinions (and biases) about you at first glance, so many people miss out on valuable opportunities before they've even open their mouths. Think about it: would you hire a personal trainer who was overweight, or a dentist with bad teeth?

The way you dress says a lot about who you are, so think about these tips every day when you get dressed:

1. Dress for the impression you want to give.
If you meet someone for the first time (whether it be a potential business acquaintance, significant other or employer), are you comfortable with the image you are presenting?
2. Ask about the dress code. If you are attending an event you should know how you are expected to dress. A good host will always provide guidelines, but if none are provided, proactively inquire and follow them!
3. "Comfortable" doesn't mean careless. Whenever you're told to dress comfortably, it doesn't mean you should let loose and wear whatever you want. You should always look as though you've put some thought into your look. 
4. Dress for the job you WANT, not for the job you HAVE. 
5. Look at the people you admire and respect and emulate them. We all need role models.
6. Remember cultural differences when traveling. 
7. When in doubt, it is better to be slightly overdressed than too casual. But never outshine the host (especially if it's a wedding!).